Celebrity Status

At Kroger, when we go out to eat in a restaurant, in the waiting room at doctor appointments, while playing at the park, walking through parking lots, even at the Arby’s in Laurel, Mississippi, nearly everywhere we go, Ellie draws attention. “I have a special friend like her.” “She is just so cute. They are always so happy.” “Look at that angel. You know, she … Continue reading Celebrity Status

Sitting Still

There was a big thud at the bottom of the playground slide. “You better watch out! You could have been killed,” the boy yells at Jack, who had been playing at the bottom of the slide. “I couldn’t be killed. I was picking up rocks,” Jack says to the older one, standing so they are now looking at each other eye to eye. “How old … Continue reading Sitting Still


Two-year-old Jack and 1-year-old Ellie have different abilities, but mom Heather Honaker says she still thinks about their futures in similar ways. I have a 2-year-old “typical” son named Jack. He likes to play outside. He likes to be silly and make others laugh. He sings his favorite songs over and over. He is curious and loves to learn about new things. He thinks every … Continue reading Typical


“You may be different, but we’re all creatures. All dinosaurs have different features.”  -Mrs. Pteranodon, Dinosaur Train   Permanent makes me feel claustrophobic. I feel closed and locked in a box that one day I might outgrow and want to leave. I can’t get a tattoo because I can’t think of anything that I want to commit to looking at every day for the rest of … Continue reading And