Having Your Cake and Eating it Too

It means wanting the benefit from two possibilities when you can only choose one. Parents, teachers, therapists, experts, researchers. Pretty much everyone in the special needs world talks about the benefits of inclusion.  According to specaileducationguide.com, inclusion means “securing opportunities for students with disabilities to learn alongside their non-disabled peers in general education classrooms.” I…

Special Assurance in Unusual Times

If you are like me, you have exhausted all of Pinterest looking for sensory-friendly, educational activities while at home social distancing. Whether or not your kids are back in school this fall, parenting during the pandemic is hard. This is new territory; every decision seems impossible and there is even more added for us to…

On the Front Line of Special Needs

When our daughter was born we were expecting Down syndrome and heart defects, but as time went on, we learned more about her and global delays, hypothyroidism, ear and eye concerns and lung disease. After telling her nurse that I didn’t want anyone else to come in our room because I couldn’t handle another diagnosis,…

A Special Father’s Day

Any man can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a daddy. This framed cross-stitch quote hung over the couch in my parents’ living room for years. My mom made it for my dad for his first Father’s Day. This cross-stitch wisdom got me thinking: if anyone can be a father, but it takes someone special to be a daddy, then what does it take to be a daddy to a child with special needs?